Adults with ADHD are often misunderstood in relationships—not because of a lack of care, but because of differences in communication, working memory, and emotional processing. This article explores relationship distress in ADHD through a neuropsychological lens, highlighting why misunderstanding is common and how reframing these patterns can reduce shame and improve connection.

ADHD burnout is not a failure of motivation or resilience. It is a nervous system response to chronic cognitive, emotional, and sensory load. This article reframes burnout through a neuropsychological and regulatory lens, distinguishing it from depression and shutdown while highlighting sensitivity as an adaptive early-warning system.