ADHD, Motivation, and the Moral Language We Need to Retire

One of the most damaging misconceptions adults with ADHD carry is not simply that they struggle with motivation, but that this struggle reveals something morally true about who they are. By adulthood, many no longer experience this belief as a theory to be questioned; it has hardened into an internal verdict. Difficulty initiating tasks or sustaining effort is interpreted not as a context-dependent neurological state, but as evidence of laziness, unreliability, or lack of discipline.