The Social Brain and Pain Circuits

What if the reason rejection hurts so deeply isn’t because you’re “too sensitive,” but because your brain is processing it as real pain?

In my latest article, The Social Brain and Pain Circuits, I explore the neuroscience behind why social rejection, criticism, and disapproval activate the same brain regions as physical injury—and why this effect is often intensified for adults with ADHD. This isn’t fragility. It’s neurobiology shaped by years of misattunement, emotional labor, and longing for connection.

If you’ve ever wondered why small moments feel so big, or why your body reacts before your mind can catch up, this piece is for you.